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Julie Raymond's avatar

I miss them all terribly. Again you have shared your joy balanced with pain in

a vulnerable and raw way. I am so proud of you and love you unconditionally.

Danielle's avatar

Thank you, mom. I know how much you miss them too. They made the world better just by being in it.

The time we had with them just wasn’t enough.

Leni Spooner's avatar

Thank you for sharing your story. It helps me carry my own grief stories. I hope that knowing you are heard helps you a little bit too.

Danielle's avatar

Thank you for sharing this with me. It’s so heartwarming to know that sharing my grief helps others carry theirs 💜.

Grief is hard (and it’s often lonely). When I sit down to write a story, I’m always holding my readers in my heart and mind. My hope is that by sharing my grief stories, the people who read them might see pain that looks familiar. Knowing the ways grief can look and feel can remind us that living with loss hurts, but it doesn’t mean we are broken (even if we might feel that way sometimes).

Shifra Clara Wasserstein's avatar

Wow

What you write is so beautiful and powerful and i can definitely feel in every line of this essay 1. how much you love your sister, and 2. How much you care about your readers, because how you share is very different than how i ever saw people write about grief. It usually feels super heavy, and your share is heartbreaking 💔 and in the same time written with so much tenderness and love that unlike any other time when i read someone’s share of grief, which can be overwhelming sometimes, reading your story makes me want to read more!

So excruciating to think of THREE dear and beloved people in your life who aren’t alive anymore. Even one is too much to bear for me to IMAGINE- let alone you lived it! Times 3 💔and are still continuing to live with that loss. Takes tremendous courage 🙏

Sending you much love and big ((hugs))

Danielle's avatar

I appreciate your words so, so much. I care deeply for my readers, and I put so much into my stories because I want my writing to move people. And I also want to honour my dad, sister, and husband.

I’m so glad you’re here 💜💜

Shifra Clara Wasserstein's avatar

And i’m so glad as well 😍

Julia Perry's avatar

Thank you for sharing Danielle. I appreciate you reading your piece.

Danielle's avatar

Thank you! I’m slowly adding voiceovers to everything.

I’m glad you’re here 💜

Céliane Gagné's avatar

And I’m crying again reading your beautiful words, Danielle ❤️‍🩹💔

Casey Bottono's avatar

'Grief scares a lot of people, but Toby wasn't afraid.'

I'm so sorry you've known so much loss, Danielle.

How beautiful that he wanted to honour Shannon in his own way.

Sending love,

Casey

Danielle's avatar

Thank you, Casey.

💜💜💜

Andrea Stoeckel (she/her/hers)'s avatar

I abhorJuly as well. My parents anniversary is July 2 (they never saw their 21st), My mother had her final stroke on July 4th and I turned off her respirator on the 10th. Her birthday (105th this year) is July 21.

I buried my father 15 months before my mother. He was 55 (cancer) and she was an active alcoholic and heavy smoker as well as a polio victim. I was 21. I am now 68.

I get it

Danielle's avatar

I’m so sorry, Andrea. This is clearly a heavy month for you too 💜

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Danielle's avatar

Thank you 💜